Your kin's favorite fare is fortified with family facts and memories. Serve up a helping of history with our guide to discovering and preserving your food heritage.
My grandmother was from the "pinch of this and dash of that" school of cooking: She had no idea how much of any ingredient she actually used.
My mother finally got Grandma (her mother-in-law) to write down the clam chowder recipe our family loved—but Mom's resulting concoction was
barely edible. In desperation, she watched my Grandma cook and interrupted to carefully measure each ingredient before it went into the mix. The
end result: a perfect pot of chowder.
From once-a-year specialties to everyday meatloaf, food evokes family history and lore. During the chowder episode, for example, I learned why
Grandma began making the dish: Her childhood summers weren't complete without a visit to Rhode Island's Rocky Point Park and Shore for a carousel
ride and a bowl of clam chowder.
Talking about mealtime memories can yield a smorgasboard of details that help you delve deeper into your
genealogy. Recipes even may hold clues about family origins—if your great-grandmother often baked peach kuchen, you may have some German
blood. So grab a knife and fork, tuck in your napkin and start exploring—and reliving—your family's food history.
We associate heirloom recipes with all kinds of occasions, but none more than the holiday season. Every Christmas Eve for generations, my
mother's French Canadian family has served tourtiere, a meat pie, although no one remembers how the tradition began. At my grandmother's house,
parsnips and baby onions—two of her children's favorites—always showed up at Thanksgiving dinner. But any gathering presents an
opportunity to talk about favorite family fare. So ask your kin these questions between mouthfuls:
- Who made this? Recipes get passed down from generation to generation through oral tradition, on recipe cards, in cookbooks and
via show-and-tell (the way my mother finally perfected Grandma's chowder). When you notice dishes that reappear on the dinner table,
find out who the chef was, compliment him and ask how he got the recipe. It may be an updated version of an ancestral dish.
- Who made it first?
Ask if anyone can remember the origins of the food. You might be surprised that recipes hopscotched
across the family tree: The lines of descent aren't necessarily mother-to-daughter. I don't make all the foods my mom loved to
cook—to be honest, I just don't like mincemeat pie—but my cousin selected several for her dinner table.
You might add new information to your family history if relatives can identify the originator of a dish. Chances are that person was
a woman. Locating your female ancestors can be challenging since they changed surnames and tended to "hide" behind their husbands in
official records. But cookery was one way for those ancestral women to express their ingenuity and resourcefulness, so try to get to
know them through the recipes they prepared. If you can't trace the recipe's originator, you may be able to use ingredients or
cooking methods to help identify her.
- Why is the dish a family favorite? This question reveals the memories that go along with the food. You're apt to hear
stories about who liked it, when it was served and how the recipe has changed. Oral tradition in the Avery family of Groton, Conn.,
tells of their 17th-century ancestors' introduction to tea. One of the Mrs. Averys (it's unknown which one) boiled tea leaves and
served them as a vegetable with pork. Predictably, the lore also recounts how no one ate the new dish.
- What other family recipes exist? Ask around, and you might learn that a cousin has Aunt Millie's cookbook or Grandma's recipe
box. What a treasure! Like old family Bibles, cookbooks often include notes scribbled in the margins ("Billy's favorite," "use less
vinegar"), and mementos such as flowers or menu cards pressed between the pages. Aunt Millie may have noted when she made a recipe
and changed the measurements based on how many she was feeding.
As you're doing genealogy, keep an eye out for meal mentions in letters, diaries and papers. Even if you don't find recorded
recipes, you may learn names or descriptions of favorite foods. Then you can research how to make them using other resources.
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